Reader Question:

I went out with man. Right at the end, the guy kissed me and mentioned he intends to “prove their chivalry” and can take me around once again soon. The guy mentioned the second fourteen days happened to be insanely hectic with work.

He text me the second night and said he had a very good time and in addition we needs to do it again eventually. We responded with virtually the same.

This has been about two-and-a-half days and that I have not heard from him. I am not the obsessive type, but i did so have a good time.

How much time ought I hold off before starting contact? Ought I hold off it as long as it can take him to make contact with me again?

-Gray (Nyc)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:

Dear Gray,

If he or she is the main one pursuing, could cash in your power by-turning the chase around. Males want to hunt and locate it no enjoyable to search in a zoo.

I would personally direct your attention on anything. As he eventually calls again, encourage him with a happy voice on the cellphone and become you used to be so active you didn’t be aware of the time had passed. Hopefully, which will be real!

And in case the guy merely texts you, take a look at technologies chapter during my publication “The 30-Day Love detoxify” to learn how to teach men to phone instead of text.

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